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Growth VS Fixed Mindset: As we travel down the road of the relationship we want we need to realize there is no relationship without problems and hurdles along the way. 💘 To think a character flaw is unideal, or that you shouldn’t need to work at true love, is a fixed mindset. For lasting love, we really need a growth mindset. 💗 A growth mindset will take you from the pain and tyranny of NOW into the possibility and promise of the FUTURE. When we come across hurdles in our relationship, they hurt us emotionally and we tend to concentrate on how we are feeling NOW and want to protect ourselves from the fear and uncertainty this hurdle has caused. 😭 😱 If we can change our fixed mindset in the moment and adopt a growth mindset, you are more likely to look for solutions, rather than getting caught in the fear. What can you do moving forward? 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤷🏽‍♂️ Do you need to speak to your partner? 💬 Do you need to do something to clear your head? 💭 Maybe yo...
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You meet someone.... finally!!!! And they seem perfect! 😍 BUT a few months in you discover that, just like you, they are not perfect. So many people find it easier to head back to Tinder than to courageously dive into a relationship and actually get to know someone. No one is perfect. No one. Not even you. We are diverse, beautiful, troubled, loving, opinionated, sentient beings. Unfortunately we don't come with instruction manuals and often have to work backwards from the person being upset or angry and then find out what the real issue is. But the take away from this is: Have courage to be with someone fully, to see all sides of them- dark and light. You want the love and connection just as much as they do. So give courageously. ❌⭕️❌⭕️ . . . . . #love #couple #cute #adorable #TagsForLikes #kiss #kisses #hugs #romance #forever #girlfriend #boyfriend #gf #bf #bff #together #photooftheday #happy #beautiful #instagood #instalove #loveher #lovehim ...

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Love unconditionally....not easy! I know!! Which is why this account exists. What happens once you believe you have found the one? There is plenty of advice out there for dating... we need some new normals when it comes to staying together! Let's normalise love and it's troubles and find some intelligent ways to navigate the landscape that too many hearts break for! ❌⭕️❌⭕️ . . . . . #love #couple #cute #adorable #TagsForLikes #kiss #kisses #hugs #romance #forever #girlfriend #boyfriend #gf #bf #bff #together #photooftheday #happy #beautiful #instagood #instalove #loveher #lovehim #xoxo #relationships #relationshipgoals